Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
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Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you r...
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729 episodis
Episode 697: Feeling Stuck After Grad School Rejections Letters
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling like a failur after facing rejection after rejection
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Episode 696: Either Way, She Left You
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who's investigating his breakup and not liking what he's finding
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Episode 695: Don't Get Burned By Your Sexy Friends' Chaotic Relationship
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is in too deep with a couple friend
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Episode 694: Love Isn't a Reward for Good Behavior
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who did everything right but still lost his relationship
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Episode 693: You Were Allowed To Be Drunk
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who's wondering how much to disclose about a painful moment from their past
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Episode 692: It's Not Pathetic To Tell Someone You Like Them
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is stuck in limbo with an ex who left her on read
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Episode 691: Metabolizing Anger At Your Ex
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose post-breakup fury just keeps rising
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Episode 690: Resentment Toward Someone Who Isn't "Working As Hard"
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who thinks about her resentment for her sister-in-law every single day
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Episode 689: My Friend’s Partner Crossed a Line
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose friend has crossed the line multiple times while high
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Episode 688: Love in Low Battery Mode
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend isn't showing her love in the way she can feel it
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Episode 687: Where Love Ends and Self-Respect Begins
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wishes her relationship had ended with more dignity and respect
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Episode 686: Learning to Sit With Other People’s Choices
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriends' parents don't have the capacity to improve she wants them to
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Episode 685: It's Time to Get Some New Friends
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to feel her feelings and not take on other people's perspectives
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Episode 684: When Grief Hardens Into Anger
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who doesn't want to be consumed by bitterness about his ex
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Episode 683: Compromise as a Living Conversation
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who finds her mother-in-law difficult
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Episode 682: Dreaming About My Crush During Naptime
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if she's in the wrong relationship
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Episode 681: Retroactive Rage
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose ex won't respect the block
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Episode 680: Being Enlightened Doesn't Mean You Don't Have Needs
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner is gone for weeks at a time
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Episode 679: My First Toxic Lesbian Break Up™
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who just got out of her first chaotic queer relationship
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Episode 678: Extroverts Dating Introverts
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner has only met her important friends once or twice
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Episode 677: The Abject Terror and Excitement of Liking Someone
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who went on a date with someone cooler than her and maybe blew it
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Episode 676: Detoxing From a Chaotic Relationship
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to learn what healthy love feels like with a nervous system trained on chaos
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Episode 675: Might Not Be the Time to Fix Your Jealousy Issues
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who doesn't want to keep bringing up what her boyfriend did
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Episode 674: When Our Social Circles Don't Match
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend has a very different social circle
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Episode 673: I Read My Boyfriend's Journal and Hurt Myself
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who read her boyfriend's journal and found something she didn't like
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Episode 672: My Ex Husband Tells Everyone I'm a Wh*re
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose ex-husband is still trying to control her
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Episode 671: Is My Bar Too High?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from somone who has a high bar for potential partners
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Episode 670: Acting Out After Being Left On Read
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from somone who doesn't want to be in her ex's bridal party
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Episode 669: My Boyfriend is Threatened By My Journal
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner doesn't like that she has a past
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Episode 668: Caught in a Cycle of Emotional Hunger
Sam and Sierra answer a letter frome someone who is wondering if she chose the wrong guy
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Episode 667: Can a Work Crush Ever Be a Good Thing?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is taking solace in a work crush
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Episode 666: Are Long-Lasting Relationships Inherently Better?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if a longer relationship will lead to a better one
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Episode 665: Navigating An Overly Negative World
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is seeking care in an uncaring world
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Episode 664: Do You Want Couple's Therapy With A Man Who Won't Say I Love You?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who went on vacation with her boyfriend and now maybe wants to just break up
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Episode 663: Panicking Over A Potential Proposal
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is panicking now that an engagement is on the table
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Episode 662: When People Pity Your Happy Single Life
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from somone who is happy being single even though the world doesn't want her to be
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Episode 661: The Shame We Carry
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who, like all of us, is holding onto shame she doesn't need to
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Episode 660: My Boyfriend's Brother's Girlfriend Hates Me
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend's brother's girlfriend hates her
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Episode 659: We're Not Meant to Hold Lightning
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has been left holding all the terrible thins her dad did to her mom
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Episode 658: You Can't Compartmentalize Your Way Out of This
Sam and Sierra answer a letter whose married boyfriend's mother is about to pass away
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