The Save The Marriage Podcast
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The Save The Marriage Podcast
Learn how to save your marriage and improve your relationship. Stop your divorce and restore a loving relationship. Join Dr. Lee H. Baucom for this impactful podcast that can save your marriage.
Episodis Recents
227 episodis
The (Created) Past Hurts Your Marriage
Sounds so philosophical, doesn't it? Your "created past." What is that?
We all do it. We remember things based on our emotional stat...
Not Knowing vs. Not Doing
You know something is wrong. You might even know, in some general sense, what needs to change.
But you're still stuck.
M...
This Is How You “Diss” Your Marriage
Most people assume a marriage falls apart because something went wrong.
A betrayal. A blow-up. A moment where everything changed.
But th...
Momentum: The Physics of a Failing Marriage
My high school science teacher almost helped me make TNT in the chemistry lab!
That's how this episode starts. But it's not really abou...
Limiting Beliefs That Limit Your Marriage
It almost seems redundant, doesn't it? If you have limited beliefs, they could limit something -- say, for example, your marriage.
I sa...
What DOES Pickleball Have To Do With Marriage??
Probably more than you want to admit.
I've been playing pickleball for about four years. Started when my wife and I moved to a new comm...
Stop Spinning the Wheel
Einstein said we can't solve our problems with the same thinking that created them.
And if you've been working on your marriage—trying hard, pu...
“If It Were Meant To Be”… Is a Load of Crap!
I hear it a lot. Sometimes from someone in the middle of a marriage crisis, trying to make sense of the pain. Sometimes from someone who hasn't hit cr...
When Pop Psychology Destroys Your Marriage
"I'm just Type A—that's why we clash."
"I'm an Alpha male. This is just who I am."
"I'm anxiously attached. I can't help how I react."
Belonging Together??
In this episode of the podcast, I explore why marriages feel empty even when couples are still together. The answer isn't about compatibility or wheth...
The Four Failing Fears
You've decided to save your marriage. You start the process, maybe even make some progress.
Then, BAM! You hit a wall.
...
The RISE Framework: Moving From Surface Talk to Soul-Level Connection
When successful men feel powerful at work but powerless at home, something fundamental is missing. In this episode, Mitchell Osmond, leadership consul...
Resetting in 2026
Resetting in 2026
New year. Same marriage problems?
Here's the thing: most people approach a new year with good intentions but n...
“I get knocked down, I get up again…”
You started working on saving your marriage. Good for you!
And then, you hit a bump. You get knocked down. Maybe you discovered an a...
Special Holiday Edition: The Ghosts of Relationships Past
Do you settle down with a good book you have read over and over this time of year? I read my kids the exact same Christmas book every single year. A...
To-Do’s and To-Don’ts of Saving Your Marriage, Pt. 2
You want to save a marriage... but you may not be sure what to do. And I guess it is also a question of what not to do.
BOTH what TO d...
Quiet Divorce: The Truth
“Quiet Divorce.” It seems to be the topic of article after article. And the articles make it seem like, “No big deal, just happens, oh well.”
...
How You Deal with Negativity
It happens. In the middle of a marriage crisis, you can find yourself surrounded by negativity. A spouse negative about the marriage. Friends and f...
The Pause Problem (and Solution)
When did it happen? When did your marriage’s trajectory head in the wrong direction?
Probably long before you thought, long before you...
To-Do’s and To-Don’ts of Saving Your Marriage, Pt. 1
You want to save a marriage... but you may not be sure what to do. And I guess it is also a question of what not to do.
BOTH what TO d...
Distraction or Traction?
What gets in the way of you getting traction in your efforts to save your marriage?
These days, there is one very substantial reason......
The Zombie Marriage
Is your marriage infected by the "zombie virus?" Do you find your relationship to be the "walking dead?" Are emotions lost and connections missing? ...
How to Save Your Marriage When You Hate Your Spouse
A listener had a question... and it isn't the first time I've heard it. How DO you save your marriage when you feel hate for your spouse? That does...
Can AI Save Your Marriage… Or End It??
Are you an AI user? Do you find yourself chatting with AI about things in your life?
How about regarding your marriage??
...
Myths of Saving Your Marriage
Do you ever start on some new habit you heard about, maybe about the best diet or exercise, only to find that it isn’t true later on? And have you ev...
Affairs and Their Aftermath
Question: does an affair cause marital problems or do marital problems cause affairs?
Answer: YES.
Longer answer: for...
Why You’re Fighting… and What to Do
Have you found yourself in the middle of an argument, toe-to-toe with your spouse, with that little part of your brain saying, "why am I even arguing...
Feeling Stuck?? No Closer??
What do you do when your spouse has shifted back toward you… some… but is still distant? More distant than you would like?
Do you have...
Getting Better or Getting Bitter
I often watch people move toward one of two possibilities when a marriage is in trouble: Getting Better or Getting Bitter. One letter difference, bu...
Getting Your Spouse to Agree?? Dangerous!
I know. You want to convince your spouse to see things your way. So, you set out to "get" your spouse to agree with you.
...And you ha...
The 3 Layers of Connection
Connection is the lifeblood of marriage. In fact, we are wired for deep connection. And while the connection works best within the marriage relation...
How Steep?
“How hard is it to save my marriage?” the email started. The writer wanted my opinion on whether my System would work. There was a problem, though. ...
Can It Be Saved?? How to know…
Can you save your marriage??
That is, to be honest, probably the biggest "speed bump" for someone who wants to save their marriage.
Having Hope
Your spouse thinks it’s hopeless. You may even be wondering that, too. But is it? Is it hopeless?
Or is the problem that your spouse...
5 Reasons Why Your Plan is Stalled
Are your efforts to save your marriage getting stalled? Maybe we should take a look at your plan.
You do have a plan, don't you?
...
Are You Getting Dragged Under??
Every marriage crisis starts as a crisis of an individual. As it expands into the marriage, the question is whether you, the spouse, will get pulled...
What Makes A Marriage Great?
What makes a marriage work?
What makes a marriage GREAT?
Maybe you are trying to save your marriage, and aren't sure if...
Are You Dragging a Spouse to Therapy??
The email said, “I talked my spouse into going to therapy.” Another one asked, “How do I drag my spouse to therapy?” Oof. The first person was proud o...
The Clarity of a Crisis
Nothing gets your focus and attention like a crisis. But sometimes, that Crisis Clarity isn't so helpful.
Let's backtrack just a minut...
Proving Your Viewpoint (Is Dangerous!)
I can’t count how many times a couple has come to me for “help with our communication skills.” Funny thing is, they communicate just fine.